As I stated last week we had a family reunion at the beach. I was hoping for the best and things went very well. There were a few hiccups but they were remarkably mild for 10 adults in 1 house. I meditated most days and focused on family. Now some people really don't have family but for most of us what IS the difference. I think the difference is:
There is a bond there that is forever. This leads to a shared history and much more important, a safe space of acceptance. For whether king or pauper, peacemaker or pugilist, at the end of the day I am still part of my family. There is comfort in that.
Of course family can also be a source of frustration because acceptance goes both ways. After 24 years in the military I am punctual and this was tested during the week at the beach house. However, we then played a trivia game and much to my chagrin, I became a "know it all". When I apologized the next morning for being annoying I was told, " You weren't too bad, don't worry about it." Yes acceptance does indeed go both ways.
So I am very glad for my family and consider all of them a blessing. For while you can't choose them, they are a source of strength and a safe harbor where we are accepted unconditionally.
Pax
Joe
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