How to make tough decisions

My brother recently had to make a tough decision on whether to buy a camper rig.   I have had to make several tough decisions in my life as I am sure you have.  It got me thinking about the process and if Lao Tzu or other greats would have any advice for us on how to make tough decisions.    Lao states:

To me this says "Think it through carefully."  This of course, is the opposite of pushy sales tactics.  They work on impulse and scaring you into a quick decision.  

For a christian I would add, praying for enlightenment from the Holy Spirit.  We have also talked about how the Spirit can speak to us through others so not only silent prayer but in discussing the matter with one or two trusted friends/advisors can also help form our decision.  But the big thing is prayer.

One can also be paralyzed with indecision which can be just as bad.  Take time to still your mind and pray. Let your self be enlightened through the Holy Spirit directly and through others and then have confidence that God [ or the universe/Tao] is with you.  

Another important thing to remember about tough decisions: no buyer's remorse.  If you have really followed the process above you have done good.  Don't let your faith be shaken.  Trust God.  Leave it in His hands until the morning and sleep soundly.  [ Easier said then done but I am getting better at it every year!]

Pax

 

Joe